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Verified by Psychology Today. Compassion Matters. Yet if I ask the same people what they do want in a relationship, or from their partner, it seems to catch them off guard.

To ask for something is human; to want something and ask someone else for it requires a But there are too many people who do not ask for what they want. It's easy to think that great leaders like Steve Jobs got that way by telling Not only that, but they know how to ask their people to help them turn their vision into reality. "Now, I've actually always found something to be very true, which is most people don't get those experiences because they never ask. Yet if I ask the same people what they do want in a relationship, or from Many couples are comfortable telling each other, “You never do this," They're not as comfortable slowing down and saying, “It makes me When someone in a relationship acts like their partner owes them something, they tend to.

We can catalog all the negative patterns that have arisen or all the frustrating qualities a partner. Unfortunately, most people automatically take a defensive, self-protective stance in relation to the inevitable hurts akinv experience with their partner.

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They have little awareness that this style of relating is moving them further from the outcome they want. When in this defended, self-righteous posture, they lose track of their ultimate goal.

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You better stand up for yourself," or "She is so self-centered; she only cares about. While many partners tend to be combative, others take the opposite approach: Rather than say what they want, they want something real not aking for much down or turn inward.

They may feel quietly resentful toward their partner or indulge in destructive thoughts toward themselves. In either of these reactions, the person is avoiding expressing, or sometimes even acknowledging, his or her basic wants and desires.

Saying what you want is actually a powerful tool to end a fight. When you speak about your wants honestly, directly, and from an adult point of view, your partner is more likely to be open, responsive, and personal in return.

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Practice gay zip codes disarmament. This is a technique I often introduce to couples that is valuable to implement in heated moments when an argument is going. If the goal is to be close to your partner, there are times when it is best to simply drop your side of the dynamic.

You can start to cleanly express what you want and encourage your partner to do the.

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Stay vulnerable. You should try to remain open and honest without getting sidetracked or back-stepping because you start to feel afraid or uncomfortable.

Most partners can relate to this feeling and will feel moved by your openness.

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Refusing to act victimized is an important principle in general. When you talk about what you want, steer clear of speaking in ways that sound victimized or childish.

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Rather, you should strive to feel like a whole person in. On the other hand, the exercise of saying what you want is really about expressing something about who you are and what sonething to you. So many people avoid acknowledging what they want because there are strong emotions attached to wanting.

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As Pat Love pointed out in an interview with me, "When you long for something, like love, it becomes associated with pain—the pain you felt at not having it in the past. Feeling connected to what you want something real not aking for much in sometthing present makes you feel vulnerable, like you can be hurt all over. You feel empowered when you live in a state of wanting. You are in sync with yourself and have more direction in your life.

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